Do you want to be a porno star

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in. A few weeks ago, I became friends with someone who use to be in porn. And not just like one low-budget movie. This person had literally performed in thousands of adult films. And, at one time, was the most popular male porn stars in America.

His name is Josh and I met him at church. I met a porn star at Church. The thing that makes Josh special is how he owns his experience, takes responsibility, and has been willing to make the hard choices to step into the person that he was created to be.

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I had an opportunity to interview Josh on my podcast and get the entire story. After the interview, we set around and just talked for a while. After reflecting on our conversation, both during the interview and after, here are a few things I took away. I sacrificed who I was in order to become who someone wanted me to be. Every time I made that choice, I regretted it. No matter who the person was, no matter what the payoff was, no matter what the possibilities were, I always regretted it.

Not who someone else wants to be, not are parents, or friends, or employer, or even our religious tradition. But who God created us to be. When you think about how you show up every day, are you showing up as some marginalize version of yourself or have you done the hard and courageous work of showing up as your true and authentic self? When Josh saw himself as someone who was already loved and accepted simply because he existed, he became willing to pursue the one who unconditionally loved him.

He saw the reality that there was something bigger than him, bigger than his experience, and something that has always been and always will be. And that something [God] loved him just the way he was. There was nothing to prove, there was no performance that had to be made.

There was no prerequisite at all. Just love. Josh helped me have a new perspective.

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And that someone deserves dignity and respect even when they are unwilling to give it to themselves. But of all the reasons I can think of to not watch porn, it would be because we love others as much as we love ourselves. We have to remember that ONLY love compels people to change. It is love that builds relationships. It is love that breaks down barriers and open hearts. Never hate. When we are willing to be vulnerable the way that Josh was vulnerable in sharing his story, we open ourselves up for a type of connection that can only be found in our weakness. They want to see someone win when the odds are stacked against them.

When we are willing to be vulnerable, we can really connect. The ones with scrapes and scars and scabs. The REAL ones. I was once told by a mentor. The most powerful thing we can say to ourselves is I AM. So telling ourselves things like, I am loving or I am patient helps you utilize those things more often.

In the same way, when we call those things out and other people it unlocks the same opportunity for them. So saying to people, you are strong or you are worth more, primes the pump for them to be able to live out those characteristics with more ease and simplicity. If we choose like Hope did we can bring out the best in other people by showing them the best in us. To say he is a jerk, or she is a bad person, lets us off the hook.

For me.

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And when I am curious I am never judgement. Connect with Josh: Facebook or Instagram. For more, visit DougStewart Get started. Open in app. Doug Stewart. in Get started. Get started Open in app.

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Discovering Identity, Self-Worth, and Love. We connect more through out vulnerabilities than through our victories. I was once told by a mentor, The most powerful thing we can say to ourselves is I AM. So what about you? More from Doug Stewart Follow. More From Medium.

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Do you want to be a porno star

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